competition

When I look up this definition, it basically is a contest between two or more persons or groups. The definition also refers to the word rivalry.

This makes me question, is competition a God thing? The more I meditate on this, the more I conclude that no, competition is not a God thing. The opposite is true. Cooperation is a God thing. Knowing that He is all about relationships and community, competition can break apart relationships and community.

Now I'm not saying we should never play any games or contests. I have no problem with a friendly game of cards or golf. The key word here is friendly. When playing games with friends, it really doesn't matter who wins or loses. The point is to have some fun with friends. It's not the destination that matters, but the journey.

So play games, have fun, and make new friends in the process.

Fantasy v. reality

Let's face it, if we're all honest with ourselves we all have fantasies of some kind. Another word for fantasy can be meditation. It's all focused thinking. However, I believe fantasy involves more imagination and creativity than meditation. Either way, it's all about our minds exploring possibilities. What if....

Why do we have fantasies? I believe it is because we all are wired up for more than what we are and where we are at right now. We live in a world that isn't exactly what God meant, so we struggle. When reality gets a little overwhelming, we need rest. Fantasy is just one way to rest from reality. Some may pray, others may read Scripture, still others meditate.

I think it can be okay to have fantasies. When I have them, I tend to keep God in the mix. When I do this, then all is well. So I say go ahead with those fantasies and be sure to keep God somewhere in the mix. This way, it will keep your imagination in check.